We were online friends for 6 months, and after that became really good friends which evolved into something more. Give her some nice surprises every now and then. she told me that she had sex with the guy 5times. Is she planning to breakup with me? Why is it that I always have to ask my gf multiple and multiple times to do something before she does it? I have a very big crush on this girl in my secondary school and i love her so much I want to get married to her! Why is it she never posts things about me or us unless I post about her or us or ask her when she is going to post something of me or us? Something tells me I should’ve handled the situation better, but at the same time, I don’t deserve someone who’s constantly playing this game with me. She quickly told goodbye and cut me off. She lives about 3 hrs from me BUT, she has just legally got a divorce, papers done. How come you guys haven’t met each other yet? That part of the relationship is awesome. she take her time to reply to my text, she don’t visit anymore tho..When i go and visit her ,she don’t take that time to stand with me like before.. When we are in a relationship or are hoping to be in a relationship, we all hope that we will be missed when we are not around. The last time we met (that was December 31st, 2017). If you are still getting to know someone that you are interested in, do not be overbearing. And when I asked her out she said I met a new guy that likes me for who I am and after sometime she texted me and asked me to give her 10 reason why we should get back together and I have her 10 she was impressed and she said she will think about it . Say it back: Depending on who the person is to you, you can say ‘I miss you too’ but that may lead to a conversation. When I came home I confronted him again and told him I needed him to put his words into actions (you can’t just say “I love/care about you” – I need to see it) or otherwise I wouldn’t visit anymore. Would you really want to be with someone who doesn’t love you fully? We wish you well in your new opportunity. If your man says he misses you, there are few things you can say to make […] you feeling ok? We intensively love each other like it never had happen before to any of us. Hi, Some thoughtful surprises include flowers, chocolates, or a sweet love note that will make her heart swell and skip a beat. When you try to treat her really well, she will be able to miss you more. When I ask her to stop talking to him.. She says she will stop in a gradual manner so that the guy does not get angry at her. she clearly says that she came to work and save some money, not to just spend time with me. I also noticed she is bn dating numerous guys. If someone is trying to guilt trip you, they might try to frame it as you being the only person who can help them. Perhaps the spark when she met you is gone. This means that she skipped the conversation for something that is not important… She does that a lot lately and I think that I have to do something about it, and quick! i was crying in front of her few times and she felt less comfort and less trust to talk with me. I met this pretty young lady on social media. And well, they are happily married with two beautiful kids now! Seems like she wants you to make more money, become a member of her church, and then marry her. When you are first getting to know that special someone, you will want to let her get to know you. Her response: “I can’t give you a chance.. If she doesn’t hear from you, she may start missing you. i was and still I AM unprepared for things like this. It was a mess. We are together like a year now and we do call each other a lot but she is so different from what i see in real,I mean she looks tired to talk or show any emotions at all,so after sometime we strated calling I gave her more space and her own time, she do miss me and calls me back right away but stil not the enthusiastic,loving person i see in real.We sure have moments and here and there and then in no time she go mysteriously silent and that keeps me wondering is it me or something else. Or just say "I'm happy to see you". Every breakup has different circumstances, but some things are universal. Ever since we haven’t been the same. In the meanwhile, don’t text and call too often since she’s the one who wanted space. In fact, it is a really good idea. Seems like she stopped loving you and she’s not really into you right now either. Please what do I do for her to miss me all the time? It’s been 1.5 year now we are together. Thank you for your replay, I will try to summarise to make it easy: No, I don’t want to be with someone else, I have strong morals and I only want to be with her. Hi, my gf break up with me at latenight saying i need some space,iam bored, want to be single and i need some time and distance but she tex me the next day saying ‘morning’ but i ignore her cuz m angry with her but she tex me often that day,next day i text her she reply my message very Fast but it seems like she doesn’t want to talk to me, she ends the conversation first what should i do. the last time we talked was 8days ago. You had a long day and want to sleep but suddenly you receive a message from your partner, “How much do you miss me?” Here are few responses to the same: “Well, as much as I want to respond to this message, I am too eager to meet you in my dreams and express the same emotion. That feeling is so hallowing. I met this Chinese girl 5 months ago at a club in Beijing and we became friends instantly. I feel my girlfriend who I want to marry is leaving me. All the while you were only trying to love me and do your best…. I asked her later on who she was talking to and she said it was her aunty. i stopped giving her so much like writing poems and let her know about my feelings too… i’m constantly scared that if i say i miss her i look weak as she represses the feelings and the missing so she “won’t suffer the distance” when actually she’s hurting me… my mom suggested me to stop telling her my feelings and enjoy the relationship as we are young and simply enjoy until is possible because we never know how long it will last… the problem is that i’m trying all the time to communicate with her and i’m such a bad liar… i can’t not tell her my feelings and what’s going on with me and most of the time i feel like she’s getting tired of me because what she wants is a normal relationship witout problems, what i want is true commitment and to feel her feelign so i can feel her close. Prove it! Same to me I would also harass men who tried to hit on her. We were so happy and we did everything together. When you do this, you will both feel refreshed, recharged, and more than ready to see each other again. The best time of the day is when you are sitting in your bed or comfortable chair after a long day and chatting with your favorite person. It will make her miss her and when she is missing you, she can find comfort in that thing that reminds her of you. and i start to feel that i don’t receive enough affection during the distance. Meanwhile, she finally accepted me last week. He might indeed miss you a lot, but if you are in the middle of your no contact period, be strong. I’m very glad for this article. Currently I’m about to try the giving space tactic mentioned above so that she will miss me a little since I usually make it a point to at least say good morning and goodnight to her. I started to freak out a little bit but realized it and bought a book that helped me get over the fears of abandonment. I made it clear that she can have all the space she needs. If she’s still with you, then most likely she cares about you, she just doesn’t feel the need to say that all the time. He begged and pleaded not to do that. Gooday kate. I don’t bring it up anymore as I don’t want to sound whiney and I’m scared it might demotivate him, but it still does bother me. it’s normal i guess… I felt so bad, because deep down, I knew I took potentially one of the best things that has ever happened to me for granted. and the last sentence, is not an affirmation. You just try to keep them happy. Fast forward, about a month later, we both got our careers going for us.. She ended up going out with her friends and got super drunk, and was calling my phone. You do not want to neglect her. Her reasoning for initially trying to break up was that she wasn’t happy, that she didn’t know what she wanted out of life and she needs to learn to love herself and that she doesn’t need my love. Would you please be so kind to give me you honest opinion? My gf wants to break up cause she wants to enjoy her life and see other people but wants us to still be together and love on one another like ntn has changed. She wanted to take her car and put him in it. Hell my dude friends and me say like "I havent seen you in forever man" … It’s different this time. Hi Tony, what are your thoughts about it? You have to give her a reason to miss you whether it is because you are a good listener, a sweet guy, or know how to show her a good time. How can you find your own power? Like, sleeping out with me against the sisters wish. I am a loyal guy when in love and loyalty is a moral value to me. Why would that even matter to her? I gave him some ideas he could do while we were away from each other. Then from January-February she got back into school and work and helping take care of her three younger siblings. You have to have an honest conversation with her about your relationship. Or we once stay together in the same environment but presently am far away from her.. I know you miss telling her things. So there will do situations: Quite honestly, if this is a scenario with you; you must be sincere in expressing your feelings. Is she using me? Well around 4 and half months later we got into another huge fight. i don’t know if all this is the result of the distance, her lack of communication or my being sensitive… i don’t want to think this is the result of a unhealthy relationship because she really keeps trying to be with me even if it looks like i’m just a bother for her… and this is not the result i wanted in this relationship. She tried again to convince her family to get us married but again they aren’t willing to do so. You didn’t go on dates, only did one thing on your list, and never received your card/letter even though you made clear that this was very important to you. Spending some of your free time alone is okay. But when i asked her why she deleted she refused and said that she haven’t deleted any of her chat. Even if you care about each other and love spending some time together, it is still a very good idea to give each other some alone time apart every now and then. We talked it trough and decided to go on together but 3 months later she just broke up with me saying that she doesnt love me as she did before and that she only sees me as a friend. well, once arrived in lithuania she tried to kiss me 3 times during the day and i noticed it. I was a real jerk. Thank you. Do I point it out to my gf that she does this? I would leave her alone. she knows i somewhat like her . You behave like a complete moron. Some people are just not so romantic. Please remember that someone who misses you right now, you might just lose them just because you did not express your feelings at a right time. I got mad and told her that only breaking up was the onky solution, then she cried and said she will never allow me to leave. To break up with her guy,. At the time she had a boyfriend but we vibed to an extent that we developed feelings for each other. i have found it true that i am right, most of the guys didn't really care about me the ones who said i missed you to. Also my other question is the other day I called my girlfriend, it was a super short 10 min call because I needed to go do something and I called her and asked her how her day was and if anything fun or exciting happened at school today and she answered those questions, and then we talked about other things but not one time in that 10 min FaceTime call did she ever say how my day was or any of that not once or even close to that topic, I don’t ever remember the last time she has ever asked me how my day was or any of that, she use to do it a long time ago but not anymore like to me for my gf to do that feels like she doesn’t give a ….. about my day or how it was and also feels like she doesn’t care about me enough. Plz give tips to make her like me thank you, Talk to her and be yourself ask her on a date or for coffee get to know her better be nice and be yourself. It helps you stay on the same page and gives you a chance to catch up with one another. nothing extreme thanks god, cause if not i would leave her after knowing something worse than what she told me already. So about a month and a half after her coming back. We also had a great time doing fun things together. This is the first year I haven’t been with her during school and she said that me not being with her all the time has shown her that she doesn’t “need me”. and couple of time i heard “the old me would break up with u straight away but there’s soemthing that is keeping me with you because i can’t wihtout you. However, she did keep stressing on a point that her ex is leaving in a few weeks which makes her confused as to what she wants from him, which made me think I kind of rushed into things and should have waited a little longer because she also didn’t tell me how she really felt about me. once i came back i asked her about her past… not nice. You can also go dancing, attend a concert together, or you can even just have a romantic picnic at the park. it feels like i’m saying things for nothing. i tried to kiss that girl and i was really excited and i was shaking. Told me she couldn’t believe me and was done with me. I got a problem. Notice how your efforts, both little and small, can affect her to the point that she begins to feel and develop a strong attachment to you. I’m with a girl for the last 7 years. However, I went with the latter and did make a move, told her how I really felt about her. If you have been seeing each other every day for a few days, it is okay to take a break for a day or two so she has time to miss you. If not, then you shouldn’t let it happen. What do you suggest Kate should I be waiting or be straight ( tell her to give me answer). We moved into my parents 2 weeks after. You never know where this conversation will lead you. I was a real jerk. i want confidence, trust, and simply seeing that all i say and try to do is truly appreciated… and i hope that me willing to not talk to her won’t bring more problems (her leaving me and find another guy) and at least showing that she looks for me (as she asked me why i stopped to write her my poetry. We won’t know for sure, but that is a possibility. So she started messaging me and finding less time for us. A while back I met this girl who I work with and she showed major signs of interest. Thank you so much in advance for being so supportive! After 2 month she got a boyfriend, this man is the man who courted him the reason why i leave her. She had put a restraining order on me in the hospital for exaggerated reasons. I ve been in love with this young girl. Hey kate. what if she tries to rch me via calling or sms….. do i need to pick it… or ignore her. I didn’t go home that night as we slept in a hotel. Please reply me as soon as you can. 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